refactor(ECR-001): 接入 ESS 并完成结构对齐 Phase A–E
绑定 ESS 双轨治理，拆分超大 H5 页与 Go 引擎，抽出 membership 服务， 并将 star/fortune 重命名为 outlook（JSON 双写兼容）；同时修复 /psy API 代理与首页 + 菜单层级。 Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>
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package relation
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import "fmt"
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func complementarityKey(a, b string) string {
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if a == b {
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return "same"
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}
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// simple buckets by trait family
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drive := map[string]string{
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"稳进探索者": "steady", "细腻分析者": "steady", "守护担当者": "steady", "洞察策略者": "steady",
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"敏锐连接者": "warm", "温和协调者": "warm", "热忱鼓舞者": "warm",
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"果断行动派": "drive", "自由创造者": "drive",
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}
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ak, bk := drive[a], drive[b]
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if ak == "" || bk == "" {
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return "mix"
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}
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if ak == bk {
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return "same_family"
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}
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if (ak == "steady" && bk == "warm") || (ak == "warm" && bk == "steady") {
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return "steady_warm"
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}
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if (ak == "drive" && bk == "steady") || (ak == "steady" && bk == "drive") {
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return "drive_steady"
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}
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if (ak == "drive" && bk == "warm") || (ak == "warm" && bk == "drive") {
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return "drive_warm"
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}
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return "mix"
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}
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type compCopy struct {
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OneLiner, Overview, Chemistry, DeepOverview, CommDeep, ConflictDeep, IntimacyDeep, GrowthDeep string
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ChemistryPoints, Watchouts, CommTips, ConflictTips, IntimacyTips, GrowthTips, Weekly, Scripts []string
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}
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func complementarityCopy(key, aName, bName, aLabel, bLabel string) compCopy {
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base := compCopy{
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OneLiner: fmt.Sprintf("%s偏「%s」，%s偏「%s」——差异可以写成相处说明书。", aName, aLabel, bName, bLabel),
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Overview: fmt.Sprintf("双方在表达、节奏与需求上并不相同。把差异看清楚，比急着证明「谁更对」更有用。下面从沟通、冲突、亲密与共同成长几个维度展开。"),
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Chemistry: "互补往往出现在：一方给结构，另一方给温度；或一方推进，另一方稳住质量。",
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Weekly: []string{
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"本周进行一次 20 分钟「非解决问题」闲聊或散步。",
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"各自写三件「我需要你这样支持我」的具体行为，互换阅读。",
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"约定一个冲突停火词，任一方说出即暂停 15 分钟。",
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},
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Scripts: []string{
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fmt.Sprintf("%s可以说：我需要先把事实说清楚，再谈感受。", aName),
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fmt.Sprintf("%s可以说：我希望你先听到我的感受，再给方案。", bName),
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"我们可以先复述对方一句，再表达自己的需要。",
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},
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}
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switch key {
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case "same":
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base.OneLiner = fmt.Sprintf("你们风格接近（都偏「%s」），默契来得快，也要防止一起陷入同样的盲区。", aLabel)
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base.Chemistry = "同类相吸：理解成本低，推进或回避也可能同步发生。"
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base.DeepOverview = "风格相近意味着你们很容易「懂对方在想什么」，但也可能同时逃避冲突，或同时过度冲刺。建议定期引入外部视角（朋友建议、清单复盘），打破镜像盲区。"
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base.CommDeep = "沟通效率高，但要刻意练习提出不同意见。安排「唱反调」轮值：每周一人专门提出风险点。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "冲突可能被快速和好掩盖，问题未真正处理。用「问题清单」追踪未完成议题。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "熟悉感强，新鲜感需主动创造：共同学习或小旅行比重复日常更能充电。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "一起设定一个共同小目标，并互相做问责伙伴。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"理解成本低", "节奏容易对齐", "共同语言多"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"共享同一盲区", "缺少外部校正", "意见过于一致缺少张力"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"鼓励提出异议", "重要决定写利弊表", "避免默认对方已懂"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"追踪未完成议题", "避免假性和好", "冷静后再做决定"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"主动制造新鲜体验", "表达感谢要具体", "保留个人空间"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"共同目标 + 问责", "每月复盘一次关系", "引入可信第三方建议"}
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case "steady_warm":
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base.Chemistry = "稳与暖互补：一方提供结构与可靠，另一方提供连接与温度。"
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base.DeepOverview = fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s之间，最常见的张力是「要先讲清楚」还是「要先被看见」。若能轮流满足这两种需求，关系会既安全又有温度。", aName, bName)
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base.CommDeep = "沟通协议：情绪话题先共鸣 2 分钟，再进入事实与方案；事务话题先结论，再补感受。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "稳的一方别用沉默当结束；暖的一方别用追问升级压力。停火后用「我需要…」重开。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "暖的一方需要回应频率；稳的一方需要可预期的独处。把两者写进约定。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "把互补写成分工：谁更擅长安抚，谁更擅长推进落地。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"结构 × 温度", "可靠 × 连接", "可形成完整支持系统"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"一方觉得被冷落", "一方觉得被情绪淹没", "节奏错位积累委屈"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"情绪先共鸣再方案", "事务先结论再感受", "用文字确认关键约定"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"禁止用沉默结束话题", "追问前先问是否方便", "停火词机制"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"约定回应窗口", "尊重独处不被解读为冷淡", "每周一次深度连接"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"按优势分工", "互相学习对方语言", "月度关系复盘"}
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case "drive_steady":
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base.Chemistry = "推与稳互补：一方破局加速，另一方把关质量与可持续。"
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base.DeepOverview = "行动派容易嫌分析派慢；稳健派容易嫌行动派莽。把「速度」用在试验，「稳健」用在关键承诺，冲突会下降。"
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base.CommDeep = "行动方给时间盒与最小方案；稳健方在时限内给风险清单，而不是无限延期。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "冲突焦点常是节奏。先对齐「这是可逆试验还是重大决定」，再选速度。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "行动方用陪伴质量弥补碎片时间；稳健方减少用担忧浇灭热情，改用「我支持你试，我们设检查点」。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "共同项目里明确角色：谁启动、谁验收、何时复盘。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"破局 × 把关", "速度 × 质量", "试验与承诺可分工"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"节奏互斥", "一方压抑热情", "一方焦虑失控"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"先定义可逆/不可逆", "时间盒决策", "风险清单限时"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"争论节奏前先分类问题", "避免人格化指责", "用检查点代替否决"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"质量陪伴", "支持试验+检查点", "庆祝小进展"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"项目角色清晰", "复盘节奏", "互相翻译动机"}
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case "drive_warm":
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base.Chemistry = "驱动与连接互补：一方带节奏，另一方维系人心与氛围。"
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base.DeepOverview = "热情与效率碰到一起很有火花，也容易在「推进」与「照顾感受」之间拉扯。约定场景切换：冲刺模式 / 连接模式。"
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base.CommDeep = "冲刺时短讯同步进度；连接时关掉任务话题。不要用效率语言处理情绪时刻。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "驱动方避免「你想太多」；连接方避免「你只在乎结果」。改说具体需求。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "用共同体验（运动、活动）同时满足推进感与连接感。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "轮流做「本周关系主理人」，负责安排一次连接或一次共同目标。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"推进力 × 氛围", "行动号召力强", "共同体验易充电"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"情绪被效率压过", "承诺过多难兑现", "连接变任务化"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"模式切换：冲刺/连接", "情绪时刻禁用效率话术", "进度短讯化"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"禁止否定感受", "需求具体化", "修复后再推进"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"共同体验", "兑现小承诺", "非任务陪伴"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"轮值关系主理人", "控制并行承诺", "庆祝与复盘并重"}
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case "same_family":
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base.DeepOverview = "你们属于相近气质族，容易互相理解，也要主动制造一点建设性差异，避免舒适区停滞。"
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base.CommDeep = "沟通顺畅时更要确认细节，防止「好像说好了」其实理解不同。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "冲突可能被淡化。强制做一次「最担心的三件事」互换。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "在舒适之外增加挑战性共同任务，刷新关系动能。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "互相指出对方一个盲区，并约定本月各改一项小行为。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"气质相近", "理解门槛低", "协作起步快"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"舒适区停滞", "细节默认错误", "回避尖锐议题"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"确认细节", "书面关键约定", "鼓励异议"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"互换担忧清单", "不假性和好", "设讨论截止"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"共同挑战任务", "新鲜体验", "具体感谢"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"互指一个盲区", "月改一小行为", "外部输入"}
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default:
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base.DeepOverview = fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s风格路径不同，说明书价值更高。先承认差异合法，再谈协作规则。", aName, bName)
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base.CommDeep = "建立双通道：事实通道与感受通道，讨论前先声明走哪一条。"
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base.ConflictDeep = "冲突时回到共同目标句：我们都希望关系更好/事情做成。"
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base.IntimacyDeep = "用定期同步取代猜测；空间与连接都要有配额。"
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base.GrowthDeep = "把差异写成「我擅长 / 我需要」对照表，贴在看得见的地方。"
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base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"视角多样", "可互补决策", "扩展彼此舒适区"}
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base.Watchouts = []string{"误解成本高", "价值观冲突需早谈", "节奏长期错位"}
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base.CommTips = []string{"声明沟通通道", "复述再回应", "关键约定书面化"}
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base.ConflictTips = []string{"回到共同目标", "停火机制", "一次只谈一个议题"}
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base.IntimacyTips = []string{"定期同步", "空间与连接配额", "具体肯定"}
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base.GrowthTips = []string{"擅长/需要对照表", "月度复盘", "小步共同目标"}
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}
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return base
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}
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@@ -145,319 +145,3 @@ func BuildFull(aBirth, bBirth time.Time, aTime, bTime, aPlace, bPlace *string, a
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}
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return Output{Summary: summary, Detail: detail}
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}
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func relationTypePack(t, aName, bName string) (label, body string, bullets []string) {
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switch t {
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case "partner", "恋人", "伴侣":
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return "伴侣",
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fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s更适合把差异写成「亲密说明书」：欲望、节奏与安全感都说清楚。", aName, bName),
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[]string{"每周一次情绪复盘，不谈对错", "亲密请求用「我需要」句式", "边界：疲惫时先暂停再继续"}
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case "family", "家人", "父母", "亲子":
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return "家人",
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fmt.Sprintf("家人关系里，%s与%s容易把旧角色带进新对话。试着把对方当「现在的人」而不是旧剧本。", aName, bName),
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[]string{"少用「你总是」句式", "大事拆成可协商的小请求", "保留各自的私人空间"}
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case "friend", "朋友":
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return "朋友",
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fmt.Sprintf("友情里%s与%s可以更轻松地互补：约会期待与回应频率说开即可。", aName, bName),
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[]string{"约见用明确时间，减少猜测", "忙时用短消息保持连结", "冲突后用玩笑或直接道歉都行，别冷处理太久"}
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default:
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return "", "", nil
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}
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}
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type dimScore struct {
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Score int
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Teaser string
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}
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func dimMap(v any) map[string]dimScore {
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out := map[string]dimScore{}
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arr, ok := v.([]map[string]any)
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if !ok {
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// Build() uses []map[string]any — also tolerate []any
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raw, ok2 := v.([]any)
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if !ok2 {
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return out
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}
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for _, item := range raw {
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m, ok := item.(map[string]any)
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if !ok {
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continue
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}
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key := str(m["key"])
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out[key] = dimScore{Score: asInt(m["score"]), Teaser: str(m["teaser"])}
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}
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return out
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}
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for _, m := range arr {
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key := str(m["key"])
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out[key] = dimScore{Score: asInt(m["score"]), Teaser: str(m["teaser"])}
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}
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return out
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}
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func asInt(v any) int {
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switch n := v.(type) {
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case int:
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return n
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case float64:
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return int(n)
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default:
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return 0
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}
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}
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func dimTitle(key string) string {
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switch key {
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case "personality":
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return "性格特点"
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case "communication":
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return "沟通方式"
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case "relation":
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return "关系模式"
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case "career":
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return "事业节奏"
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case "emotion":
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return "情绪调节"
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case "lifestyle":
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return "生活节奏"
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default:
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return key
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}
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}
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func dimNote(key string, gap int, aName, bName string) string {
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if gap > 12 {
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return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上，%s 分值更高，适合由 %s 多给结构，%s 多给弹性。", dimTitle(key), aName, aName, bName)
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}
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if gap < -12 {
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return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上，%s 分值更高，相处时可多尊重 %s 的节奏。", dimTitle(key), bName, bName)
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}
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return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上双方接近，容易形成默契，也要防止都默认对方「应该懂」。", dimTitle(key))
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}
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func firstTeaser(m map[string]dimScore, key string) string {
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if d, ok := m[key]; ok && d.Teaser != "" {
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return d.Teaser
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}
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return "表达方式各有节奏"
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}
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func complementarityKey(a, b string) string {
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if a == b {
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return "same"
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}
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// simple buckets by trait family
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drive := map[string]string{
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"稳进探索者": "steady", "细腻分析者": "steady", "守护担当者": "steady", "洞察策略者": "steady",
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"敏锐连接者": "warm", "温和协调者": "warm", "热忱鼓舞者": "warm",
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"果断行动派": "drive", "自由创造者": "drive",
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}
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ak, bk := drive[a], drive[b]
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if ak == "" || bk == "" {
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return "mix"
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}
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if ak == bk {
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return "same_family"
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}
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if (ak == "steady" && bk == "warm") || (ak == "warm" && bk == "steady") {
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return "steady_warm"
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}
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if (ak == "drive" && bk == "steady") || (ak == "steady" && bk == "drive") {
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return "drive_steady"
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}
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if (ak == "drive" && bk == "warm") || (ak == "warm" && bk == "drive") {
|
||||
return "drive_warm"
|
||||
}
|
||||
return "mix"
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
type compCopy struct {
|
||||
OneLiner, Overview, Chemistry, DeepOverview, CommDeep, ConflictDeep, IntimacyDeep, GrowthDeep string
|
||||
ChemistryPoints, Watchouts, CommTips, ConflictTips, IntimacyTips, GrowthTips, Weekly, Scripts []string
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func complementarityCopy(key, aName, bName, aLabel, bLabel string) compCopy {
|
||||
base := compCopy{
|
||||
OneLiner: fmt.Sprintf("%s偏「%s」，%s偏「%s」——差异可以写成相处说明书。", aName, aLabel, bName, bLabel),
|
||||
Overview: fmt.Sprintf("双方在表达、节奏与需求上并不相同。把差异看清楚，比急着证明「谁更对」更有用。下面从沟通、冲突、亲密与共同成长几个维度展开。"),
|
||||
Chemistry: "互补往往出现在：一方给结构，另一方给温度；或一方推进，另一方稳住质量。",
|
||||
Weekly: []string{
|
||||
"本周进行一次 20 分钟「非解决问题」闲聊或散步。",
|
||||
"各自写三件「我需要你这样支持我」的具体行为，互换阅读。",
|
||||
"约定一个冲突停火词，任一方说出即暂停 15 分钟。",
|
||||
},
|
||||
Scripts: []string{
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("%s可以说：我需要先把事实说清楚，再谈感受。", aName),
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("%s可以说：我希望你先听到我的感受，再给方案。", bName),
|
||||
"我们可以先复述对方一句，再表达自己的需要。",
|
||||
},
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
switch key {
|
||||
case "same":
|
||||
base.OneLiner = fmt.Sprintf("你们风格接近（都偏「%s」），默契来得快，也要防止一起陷入同样的盲区。", aLabel)
|
||||
base.Chemistry = "同类相吸：理解成本低，推进或回避也可能同步发生。"
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = "风格相近意味着你们很容易「懂对方在想什么」，但也可能同时逃避冲突，或同时过度冲刺。建议定期引入外部视角（朋友建议、清单复盘），打破镜像盲区。"
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "沟通效率高，但要刻意练习提出不同意见。安排「唱反调」轮值：每周一人专门提出风险点。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "冲突可能被快速和好掩盖，问题未真正处理。用「问题清单」追踪未完成议题。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "熟悉感强，新鲜感需主动创造：共同学习或小旅行比重复日常更能充电。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "一起设定一个共同小目标，并互相做问责伙伴。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"理解成本低", "节奏容易对齐", "共同语言多"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"共享同一盲区", "缺少外部校正", "意见过于一致缺少张力"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"鼓励提出异议", "重要决定写利弊表", "避免默认对方已懂"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"追踪未完成议题", "避免假性和好", "冷静后再做决定"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"主动制造新鲜体验", "表达感谢要具体", "保留个人空间"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"共同目标 + 问责", "每月复盘一次关系", "引入可信第三方建议"}
|
||||
case "steady_warm":
|
||||
base.Chemistry = "稳与暖互补：一方提供结构与可靠，另一方提供连接与温度。"
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s之间，最常见的张力是「要先讲清楚」还是「要先被看见」。若能轮流满足这两种需求，关系会既安全又有温度。", aName, bName)
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "沟通协议：情绪话题先共鸣 2 分钟，再进入事实与方案；事务话题先结论，再补感受。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "稳的一方别用沉默当结束；暖的一方别用追问升级压力。停火后用「我需要…」重开。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "暖的一方需要回应频率；稳的一方需要可预期的独处。把两者写进约定。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "把互补写成分工：谁更擅长安抚，谁更擅长推进落地。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"结构 × 温度", "可靠 × 连接", "可形成完整支持系统"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"一方觉得被冷落", "一方觉得被情绪淹没", "节奏错位积累委屈"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"情绪先共鸣再方案", "事务先结论再感受", "用文字确认关键约定"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"禁止用沉默结束话题", "追问前先问是否方便", "停火词机制"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"约定回应窗口", "尊重独处不被解读为冷淡", "每周一次深度连接"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"按优势分工", "互相学习对方语言", "月度关系复盘"}
|
||||
case "drive_steady":
|
||||
base.Chemistry = "推与稳互补：一方破局加速，另一方把关质量与可持续。"
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = "行动派容易嫌分析派慢；稳健派容易嫌行动派莽。把「速度」用在试验，「稳健」用在关键承诺，冲突会下降。"
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "行动方给时间盒与最小方案；稳健方在时限内给风险清单，而不是无限延期。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "冲突焦点常是节奏。先对齐「这是可逆试验还是重大决定」，再选速度。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "行动方用陪伴质量弥补碎片时间；稳健方减少用担忧浇灭热情，改用「我支持你试，我们设检查点」。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "共同项目里明确角色：谁启动、谁验收、何时复盘。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"破局 × 把关", "速度 × 质量", "试验与承诺可分工"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"节奏互斥", "一方压抑热情", "一方焦虑失控"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"先定义可逆/不可逆", "时间盒决策", "风险清单限时"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"争论节奏前先分类问题", "避免人格化指责", "用检查点代替否决"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"质量陪伴", "支持试验+检查点", "庆祝小进展"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"项目角色清晰", "复盘节奏", "互相翻译动机"}
|
||||
case "drive_warm":
|
||||
base.Chemistry = "驱动与连接互补：一方带节奏，另一方维系人心与氛围。"
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = "热情与效率碰到一起很有火花，也容易在「推进」与「照顾感受」之间拉扯。约定场景切换：冲刺模式 / 连接模式。"
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "冲刺时短讯同步进度；连接时关掉任务话题。不要用效率语言处理情绪时刻。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "驱动方避免「你想太多」；连接方避免「你只在乎结果」。改说具体需求。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "用共同体验（运动、活动）同时满足推进感与连接感。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "轮流做「本周关系主理人」，负责安排一次连接或一次共同目标。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"推进力 × 氛围", "行动号召力强", "共同体验易充电"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"情绪被效率压过", "承诺过多难兑现", "连接变任务化"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"模式切换：冲刺/连接", "情绪时刻禁用效率话术", "进度短讯化"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"禁止否定感受", "需求具体化", "修复后再推进"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"共同体验", "兑现小承诺", "非任务陪伴"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"轮值关系主理人", "控制并行承诺", "庆祝与复盘并重"}
|
||||
case "same_family":
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = "你们属于相近气质族，容易互相理解，也要主动制造一点建设性差异，避免舒适区停滞。"
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "沟通顺畅时更要确认细节，防止「好像说好了」其实理解不同。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "冲突可能被淡化。强制做一次「最担心的三件事」互换。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "在舒适之外增加挑战性共同任务，刷新关系动能。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "互相指出对方一个盲区，并约定本月各改一项小行为。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"气质相近", "理解门槛低", "协作起步快"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"舒适区停滞", "细节默认错误", "回避尖锐议题"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"确认细节", "书面关键约定", "鼓励异议"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"互换担忧清单", "不假性和好", "设讨论截止"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"共同挑战任务", "新鲜体验", "具体感谢"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"互指一个盲区", "月改一小行为", "外部输入"}
|
||||
default:
|
||||
base.DeepOverview = fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s风格路径不同，说明书价值更高。先承认差异合法，再谈协作规则。", aName, bName)
|
||||
base.CommDeep = "建立双通道：事实通道与感受通道，讨论前先声明走哪一条。"
|
||||
base.ConflictDeep = "冲突时回到共同目标句：我们都希望关系更好/事情做成。"
|
||||
base.IntimacyDeep = "用定期同步取代猜测；空间与连接都要有配额。"
|
||||
base.GrowthDeep = "把差异写成「我擅长 / 我需要」对照表，贴在看得见的地方。"
|
||||
base.ChemistryPoints = []string{"视角多样", "可互补决策", "扩展彼此舒适区"}
|
||||
base.Watchouts = []string{"误解成本高", "价值观冲突需早谈", "节奏长期错位"}
|
||||
base.CommTips = []string{"声明沟通通道", "复述再回应", "关键约定书面化"}
|
||||
base.ConflictTips = []string{"回到共同目标", "停火机制", "一次只谈一个议题"}
|
||||
base.IntimacyTips = []string{"定期同步", "空间与连接配额", "具体肯定"}
|
||||
base.GrowthTips = []string{"擅长/需要对照表", "月度复盘", "小步共同目标"}
|
||||
}
|
||||
return base
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func harmonyIndex(dims []map[string]any) int {
|
||||
if len(dims) == 0 {
|
||||
return 72
|
||||
}
|
||||
sum := 0
|
||||
for _, d := range dims {
|
||||
gap := asInt(d["gap"])
|
||||
sum += 100 - gap*4
|
||||
}
|
||||
avg := sum / len(dims)
|
||||
if avg < 45 {
|
||||
return 45
|
||||
}
|
||||
if avg > 96 {
|
||||
return 96
|
||||
}
|
||||
return avg
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func fitFromHarmony(score int, aLabel, bLabel string) (string, []string) {
|
||||
switch {
|
||||
case score >= 82:
|
||||
return "默契互补型", []string{
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s节奏接近，适合共同推进小事。", aLabel, bLabel),
|
||||
"把欣赏说出口，默契会更稳。",
|
||||
"每周留一次轻松同步，不必每次谈大事。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
case score >= 68:
|
||||
return "磨合成长型", []string{
|
||||
"差异可见，正好写成相处说明书。",
|
||||
"冲突时先复述再提方案。",
|
||||
"共同目标写清楚，减少猜忌。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
default:
|
||||
return "反差探索型", []string{
|
||||
"反差大不等于不合，关键是边界与节奏。",
|
||||
"重要约定尽量具体、可检查。",
|
||||
"给彼此独处充电的空间。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func starPairNote(a, b string) string {
|
||||
if a == b {
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("同为%s：容易共鸣，也要避免同质盲区。", a)
|
||||
}
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("%s × %s：节奏不同，适合「我负责启动 / 你负责收尾」式分工。", a, b)
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func str(v any) string {
|
||||
s, _ := v.(string)
|
||||
return s
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func strSlice(v any) []string {
|
||||
arr, ok := v.([]string)
|
||||
if ok {
|
||||
return arr
|
||||
}
|
||||
raw, ok := v.([]any)
|
||||
if !ok {
|
||||
return nil
|
||||
}
|
||||
out := make([]string, 0, len(raw))
|
||||
for _, x := range raw {
|
||||
if s, ok := x.(string); ok {
|
||||
out = append(out, s)
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
return out
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func firstNonEmpty(a, b string) string {
|
||||
if a != "" {
|
||||
return a
|
||||
}
|
||||
return b
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func min(a, b int) int {
|
||||
if a < b {
|
||||
return a
|
||||
}
|
||||
return b
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
@@ -0,0 +1,66 @@
|
||||
package relation
|
||||
|
||||
import "fmt"
|
||||
|
||||
func relationTypePack(t, aName, bName string) (label, body string, bullets []string) {
|
||||
switch t {
|
||||
case "partner", "恋人", "伴侣":
|
||||
return "伴侣",
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s更适合把差异写成「亲密说明书」：欲望、节奏与安全感都说清楚。", aName, bName),
|
||||
[]string{"每周一次情绪复盘，不谈对错", "亲密请求用「我需要」句式", "边界：疲惫时先暂停再继续"}
|
||||
case "family", "家人", "父母", "亲子":
|
||||
return "家人",
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("家人关系里，%s与%s容易把旧角色带进新对话。试着把对方当「现在的人」而不是旧剧本。", aName, bName),
|
||||
[]string{"少用「你总是」句式", "大事拆成可协商的小请求", "保留各自的私人空间"}
|
||||
case "friend", "朋友":
|
||||
return "朋友",
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("友情里%s与%s可以更轻松地互补：约会期待与回应频率说开即可。", aName, bName),
|
||||
[]string{"约见用明确时间，减少猜测", "忙时用短消息保持连结", "冲突后用玩笑或直接道歉都行，别冷处理太久"}
|
||||
default:
|
||||
return "", "", nil
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func starPairNote(a, b string) string {
|
||||
if a == b {
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("同为%s：容易共鸣，也要避免同质盲区。", a)
|
||||
}
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("%s × %s：节奏不同，适合「我负责启动 / 你负责收尾」式分工。", a, b)
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func str(v any) string {
|
||||
s, _ := v.(string)
|
||||
return s
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func strSlice(v any) []string {
|
||||
arr, ok := v.([]string)
|
||||
if ok {
|
||||
return arr
|
||||
}
|
||||
raw, ok := v.([]any)
|
||||
if !ok {
|
||||
return nil
|
||||
}
|
||||
out := make([]string, 0, len(raw))
|
||||
for _, x := range raw {
|
||||
if s, ok := x.(string); ok {
|
||||
out = append(out, s)
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
return out
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func firstNonEmpty(a, b string) string {
|
||||
if a != "" {
|
||||
return a
|
||||
}
|
||||
return b
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func min(a, b int) int {
|
||||
if a < b {
|
||||
return a
|
||||
}
|
||||
return b
|
||||
}
|
||||
@@ -0,0 +1,123 @@
|
||||
package relation
|
||||
|
||||
import "fmt"
|
||||
|
||||
type dimScore struct {
|
||||
Score int
|
||||
Teaser string
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func dimMap(v any) map[string]dimScore {
|
||||
out := map[string]dimScore{}
|
||||
arr, ok := v.([]map[string]any)
|
||||
if !ok {
|
||||
// Build() uses []map[string]any — also tolerate []any
|
||||
raw, ok2 := v.([]any)
|
||||
if !ok2 {
|
||||
return out
|
||||
}
|
||||
for _, item := range raw {
|
||||
m, ok := item.(map[string]any)
|
||||
if !ok {
|
||||
continue
|
||||
}
|
||||
key := str(m["key"])
|
||||
out[key] = dimScore{Score: asInt(m["score"]), Teaser: str(m["teaser"])}
|
||||
}
|
||||
return out
|
||||
}
|
||||
for _, m := range arr {
|
||||
key := str(m["key"])
|
||||
out[key] = dimScore{Score: asInt(m["score"]), Teaser: str(m["teaser"])}
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}
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return out
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}
|
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|
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func asInt(v any) int {
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switch n := v.(type) {
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case int:
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return n
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case float64:
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return int(n)
|
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default:
|
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return 0
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}
|
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}
|
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|
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func dimTitle(key string) string {
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switch key {
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case "personality":
|
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return "性格特点"
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case "communication":
|
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return "沟通方式"
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case "relation":
|
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return "关系模式"
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case "career":
|
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return "事业节奏"
|
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case "emotion":
|
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return "情绪调节"
|
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case "lifestyle":
|
||||
return "生活节奏"
|
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default:
|
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return key
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
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func dimNote(key string, gap int, aName, bName string) string {
|
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if gap > 12 {
|
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return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上，%s 分值更高，适合由 %s 多给结构，%s 多给弹性。", dimTitle(key), aName, aName, bName)
|
||||
}
|
||||
if gap < -12 {
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上，%s 分值更高，相处时可多尊重 %s 的节奏。", dimTitle(key), bName, bName)
|
||||
}
|
||||
return fmt.Sprintf("在「%s」上双方接近，容易形成默契，也要防止都默认对方「应该懂」。", dimTitle(key))
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func firstTeaser(m map[string]dimScore, key string) string {
|
||||
if d, ok := m[key]; ok && d.Teaser != "" {
|
||||
return d.Teaser
|
||||
}
|
||||
return "表达方式各有节奏"
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func harmonyIndex(dims []map[string]any) int {
|
||||
if len(dims) == 0 {
|
||||
return 72
|
||||
}
|
||||
sum := 0
|
||||
for _, d := range dims {
|
||||
gap := asInt(d["gap"])
|
||||
sum += 100 - gap*4
|
||||
}
|
||||
avg := sum / len(dims)
|
||||
if avg < 45 {
|
||||
return 45
|
||||
}
|
||||
if avg > 96 {
|
||||
return 96
|
||||
}
|
||||
return avg
|
||||
}
|
||||
|
||||
func fitFromHarmony(score int, aLabel, bLabel string) (string, []string) {
|
||||
switch {
|
||||
case score >= 82:
|
||||
return "默契互补型", []string{
|
||||
fmt.Sprintf("%s与%s节奏接近，适合共同推进小事。", aLabel, bLabel),
|
||||
"把欣赏说出口，默契会更稳。",
|
||||
"每周留一次轻松同步，不必每次谈大事。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
case score >= 68:
|
||||
return "磨合成长型", []string{
|
||||
"差异可见，正好写成相处说明书。",
|
||||
"冲突时先复述再提方案。",
|
||||
"共同目标写清楚，减少猜忌。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
default:
|
||||
return "反差探索型", []string{
|
||||
"反差大不等于不合，关键是边界与节奏。",
|
||||
"重要约定尽量具体、可检查。",
|
||||
"给彼此独处充电的空间。",
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
}
|
||||
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